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The chastity pledge or virginity pledge is an influential aspect of American culture with significant impacts on the lives of adolescent girls and young women today. An estimated 2.5 million teens and young adults have taken the chastity pledge and committed to sexual abstinence until marriage, including pop culture stars Miley Cyrus, Jordin Sparks, and the Jonas Brothers. Yet despite the popularity of chastity pledges, the program continues to spark debate and controversy among critics and supporters of abstinence-only education, particularly with regards to their effectiveness in preventing teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease (STD) contraction, or sexually transmitted infection (STI) contraction. Current research on chastity pledges offers contradictory results at best.

The first chastity pledge program emerged in 1993 from a Southern Baptist Church and was aptly titled, True Love Waits (TLW). This particular chastity program sought to challenge teens and young adults to remain sexually abstinent with the public signing of commitment cards, but the program also utilized religion, faith, and morality to motivate abstinence.

The national and international success of the TLW program sparked the establishment of similar virginity initiatives such as the Silver Ring Thing (SRT). SRT uses rock-style concerts and events to appeal to teens, while simultaneously adhering to the Christian faith-based abstinence message. At the conclusion of SRT events, teens publicly commit to abstinence and then adorn a silver “purity” ring on the ring finger of their left hand.

The ring symbolically represents their pledge to sexual abstinence, but it also acts as an identifiable cultural symbol, which marks them as part of the chastity pledge movement. Further cultural markers include bracelets and necklaces, as well as attendance at any number of chastity events such as purity balls (or dances), summer camps, and concerts. Teens also participate in Internet-based community chats and make online virtual pledges.

Popularity, Support, and Criticism

The popularity of chastity pledges among teens and young adults is reflected in American popular culture. Popular discourses around sexuality and virginity are constantly in flux; however, the public endorsement and support of chastity pledges by teen celebrities like Cyrus, Sparks, and the Jonas Brothers acts to shift discussions of virginity and make it “cool” to say no.

The effectiveness of chastity pledges in preventing teen pregnancy and STD contraction continues to be debated by critics and supporters of abstinence-only education. This debate is further challenged by the often-contradictory research results on chastity pledges as an exclusive prevention method.

Supporters of chastity pledges argue that sex education gives teens the wrong message about sex and assumes that all teens are sexually active. Abstinence-only supporters stress adhering to moral systems that justify saying “no” to sex and advocate the belief that sex belongs within marriage. They contend that pledges assist teens (especially girls) in developing self-esteem and self-respect. Furthermore, by encouraging teens to remain sexually abstinent, they argue that pregnancy and STD contraction rates are reduced because teens wait until marriage to engage in sexual activity.

Critics of chastity pledges argue that it sets unrealistic standards for adolescents, particularly with regards to the normative assumption that sex only occurs within a marriage and is only for married individuals. They critique the reliance on images of romantic and heterosexual love and its associated traditional gender roles for girls and boys. Without adequate sex education, critics contend that pregnancy and STD rates will increase because teens do not have access to prevention information if and when they become sexually active. Moreover, chastity pledges may lead to unrealistic relationship standards, early marriages and subsequently higher divorce rates. Critics argue that teens need to be given information on how to protect themselves from pregnancy and STDs, in addition to discussing the positive impacts of abstinence.

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