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Born in 1960 in South Wales and educated at the University of Cambridge, Allison Pearson is a columnist for Britain's Daily Mail newspaper. In her popular column, Pearson addresses a wide variety of topics, mixing her particular interest in motherhood, family dynamics, and women in the labor force with attention to popular issues of the day.

Pearson is best known, however, for having authored the best-selling 2002 novel I Don't Know How She Does It: The Life of Kate Reddy, WorkingMother. This novel describes the life of narrator Kate Reddy, a wife, mother of two, and high-powered financial executive, who struggles to keep up with her numerous and competing responsibilities. The storyline follows Reddy between home and work as it plays out across conversations, e-mails with colleagues, and her “Must Remember” lists that grow longer and more harried over the course of the narrative.

At work, Reddy is a hedge fund manager at the Edwards Morgan Forrester investment bank in London's City. She has ascended to the highest position any female at her firm has achieved, which situates her in a highly visible, and acutely felt, token position. Reddy works tirelessly to manage her domestic and international accounts—a challenge that she finds genuinely fulfilling—but also to combat her colleagues' always-implied, often-articulated doubts that she can be both a mother and an excellent professional. At home, Reddy has little time for her children, her marriage, or herself. Her husband, Richard, is an underemployed architect who, with the nanny, manages most of their children's care. The children crave time with Reddy, and 5-year-old Emily has come to resent her mother's regular absences. Home is where Reddy feels the clash between work and family needs—and its attendant guilt—most intensely. This underlies her conflicted relationship with the family nanny, her ambivalent feelings about motherhood, and her straining connection with Richard.

Several weighty themes play out in the tensions between the narrator's professional and family lives. One of the most prevalent underlies Reddy's ambivalence about the putatively feminist goal that contemporary women “have it all”: “Back in the Seventies, when they were fighting for women's rights, what did they think equal opportunities meant: that women would be entitled to spend as little time with their kids as men do?” As a whole, Pearson's novel asserts that work-family conflict is a more persistent and profound problem than her somewhat optimistic conclusion suggests.

“That's My Life!”

Pearson was inspired to write the novel after reading about a survey of employed women's experiences and attending a discussion on work-life balance at the London Business School. Describing the response to her first column on working mothers—published in Pearson's former journalistic home, the Daily Telegraph—the author said, “I got literally hundreds of letters from women, all saying: ‘That's my life!’ It felt as though I'd opened a small door into a parallel world and on the other side was this huge amount of unacknowledged feeling.”

This reception was echoed in the reviews of I Don't Know How She Does It. The novel received enthusiastic acclaim in Britain and the United States, inspired largely by what reviewers felt was a vivid, witty, and realistic portrayal of contemporary working motherhood. The influential American talk show host, Oprah Winfrey, went so far as to describe it as “the national anthem for working mothers.” The text appeared on several best-seller lists during winter 2002–03, and later made the New York Times' “New and Noteworthy” list as a paperback.

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