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Sexual attraction is a feeling of attraction to another person on the basis of sexual desire. Sexual attraction differs from other types of attraction such as friendship attraction in that it involves a component that is specifically sexual. For example, research has shown that there are two general types of love: passionate love, which is an intense feeling of longing for union with another, and companionate love, which is a warm feeling of affection and tenderness for those with whom people's lives are deeply connected. Sexual attraction is a particularly important aspect of passionate love but is much less relevant to companionate love.

There are several ways that researchers measure people's feelings of sexual attraction to another person: sexual desire (a motivational component that refers to a wish, need, or drive to seek out sexual objects or to engage in sexual activities), sexual behavior (a behavioral component, often assessed by determining how frequently couples engage in various sexual behaviors such as kissing, petting, and intercourse), and sexual feelings (an evaluative component including feelings of satisfaction, intimacy, and pleasure). Although sexual desire, sexual behavior, and sexual feelings often co-occur within a given sexual interaction, they are considered separate and distinct phenomena. For example, people can engage in sexual activity when they have little or no sexual desire, a phenomenon called sexual compliance or consensual unwanted sex. Similarly, people can experience sexual desire and engage in sexual behavior but not find their experiences to be particularly pleasurable or satisfying. This entry examines the factors that influence sexual attraction, the features people are sexually attracted to, the people found to be sexually attractive, the reasons people engage in sex when they are sexually attracted, and the ways sexual attraction changes over the course of relationships.

What Influences Sexual Attraction

Several theories attempt to explain the factors that influence sexual attraction. Social context theories focus on the proximal influences of sexual attraction, such as the social and cultural environments. According to these theories, sociocultural scripts guide people's attitudes, behaviors, and experiences with sexuality, including the factors that people perceive as sexually attractive. For example, in contemporary Western cultures, it is not viewed as acceptable to desire individuals much younger than oneself, especially those who are not yet socially considered to be adults. However, in other cultures, individuals, especially women, enter into marriages when they are in their teens. In contrast to social context theories, evolutionary theory considers the distal influences of sexual attraction, including how natural selection shaped sexual attraction in the time of the hunter-gatherers. Reproduction is an essential part of evolution; therefore, those traits that allowed hunter-gatherers to better survive and reproduce are now viewed as more sexually attractive. According to this theory, traits that signify health and fertility, such as facial symmetry and a fit body, are considered to be more sexually attractive.

Both of these theories attempt to explain why individuals find certain features, such as a beautiful face, to be more sexually attractive than other features. Social context theories consider current influences such as society and culture, allowing for differences in sexual attraction within different environments. Conversely, evolutionary theory attempts to explain the universality of sexual attraction, based on the traits that enhanced survival and reproduction during hunter-gatherer times. Despite their different approaches, both theories focus on gender differences in what is considered to be sexually attractive.

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