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Tomboy/Sissy

The terms tomboy and sissy refer, respectively, to préadolescent girls and boys who adopt behaviors and play patterns culturally associated with the “opposite sex.” Stereotypical accounts of tomboys describe them as eschewing frilly, feminine forms of dress for jeans and sneakers and seeking out adventurous, outdoor play in the company of boys. Sissies, in contrast, are described as shy, emotional boys who would rather play with dolls and makeup than take part in sports or masculine roughhousing. Research on childhood and gender illustrates that these labels for gender-crossing children carry different connotations. Sissy is a derogatory term used to police boys' behaviors, as it is closely associated with adult male homosexuality and the cultural devaluation of the feminine. While tomboy can be a dismissive term, it often carries a positive image of spunky, young girls expressing their independence. However, tomboys who persistently identify as boys can face parental censure, as many autobiographies of female-to-male transsexuals reveal, as can girls who continue to exhibit female masculinity in adolescence.

Early Origins

The origins of both terms can be traced back to as early as the 17th century. Tomboy originally referred to an aggressive boy, but the term later became applied to “loose” women. In the late 19th century, the current meaning of tomboy emerged. Tomboy had a positive connotation at the turn of the century, as demonstrated by a flood of literature about spunky, préadolescent girls. Outdoor activities sponsored by groups like the newly developed Girl Scouts were even recommended for young girls, as vigorous exercise was thought to ward off female hysteria. In adolescence, however, the tomboy was expected to mature into a gender-conforming young woman who willingly took on her womanly duties of marriage and childbirth

Sissy originally is a derivation of sister, often used to refer to young female siblings. In the late 19th century, the term was applied by masculinity social reformers, such as Theodore Roosevelt and G. Stanley Hall, to what was represented as an epidemic of young boys who were sickly, timid, and too tied to their mothers. Advice books abounded that encouraged parents to root out effeminacy in boys. Mothers were especially targeted as the cause of “sissification.” Boys were pushed toward hunting and camping to strengthen their masculinity. By the turn of the century, sissy was closely tied to sexual inversion, a sexology term for individuals who gender-crossed and had same-sex desires. While cultural beliefs about women's asexuality delayed the Ware, S. (2007). Title IX: A brief history with documents. Boston: Bedford/St. Martin's. pathologizing of tomboys, by the 1920s, girls who had not adopted feminine behaviors in adolescence also ran the risk of being labeled inverts. Countering “gender-inverted” behavior in young children became a major concern of sexologists and later psychologists. Waves of “sissy panic” aimed at young boys would continue to emerge in historical periods when masculinity was deemed to be in crisis.

Therapeutic Interventions

Since the 1970s, the National Institute of Mental Health has provided over $ 1 million of funding for psychological research aimed at correcting cross-gender identity problems in children. “Sissies” have made up the bulk of research participants in these studies. The Gender Identity Research Center (GIRC) at the University of California, Los Angeles, spearheaded much of this research. In the 1970s, psychologist Richard Green created the “Feminine Boy Project” at GIRC. Boys who exhibited cross-gender behavior underwent therapy aimed at strengthening their masculinity identities. Green and his colleagues used behavior modification therapy, encouraging boys to engage in stereotypically masculine behavior, such as playing with trucks rather than dolls, and to reject attitudes and playthings associated with the feminine. The goal of the Feminine Boy Project was to prevent “sissy boys” from becoming adult homosexuals. Green eventually published The “Sissy-Boy” Syndrome and the Development of Homosexuality (1987) from this work.

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