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Academic investigations of children's ability deceive and lie dates back to the late 1800s and early 1900s, with scholars such as Charles Darwin and Jean Piaget noting instances of lying in children as young as 2.5 years old. Research in the last 20 years indicates that although a child as young as 3 years of age may be able to recognize deceitful behaviors, the ability to use lying and deception strategically emerges more clearly at ages 4 and 5. Development continues throughout childhood and adolescence, as does the ability to differentiate prosocial from antisocial lying. These developments are typically tied to children's moral development, theory of mind, and executive functioning. In addition, recent research indicates that lying is both culturally and developmentally universal.

Although there are varying definitions of deception and lying in the literature on children's development of these skills, deception is generally held to be the intentional communication of something known to be untrue in the attempt to deceive another person and induce a false belief. These deceptions can be verbal or nonverbal, and can include role-playing and magic tricks and omission of relevant information. Lying is typically defined more narrowly as the use of knowingly false statements or assertions. Thus, lies are by default deception, but not all deception is lying.

Children are taught that deception is a moral issue: Lying is bad and honesty is a virtue. Society is replete with narratives and parables to support the virtue of veracity, from the story of George Washington and the cherry tree to Peter and the Wolf. Honest people are seen as heroes and role models, whereas chronic liars are seen as untrustworthy. Research indicates that lying reduces credibility and damages personal and social relationships. Chronic liars are also seen as developmentally delayed and socially maladjusted.

First Lies

Children's first lies are typically told to avoid consequences for misdeeds, thus to protect themselves or to injure another person (get someone in trouble). These lies are antisocial lies, which are self-interested acts that put the needs of self above the needs of others. Self-protective lies are among the most common lies in early childhood, and they emerge the earliest, some studies suggesting as young as 2.5 years of age.

Studies frequently investigate these issues through an experimental procedure called the temptation resistance paradigm: Children are invited into a lab and told not to look at an enticing toy or other object while the researcher leaves the room. When the researcher returns (and has been watching the child), the child will be asked if he or she peeked at the forbidden object. Though over 80 percent of the children at all age groups peek, fewer younger children lie (approximately 30 to 40 percent of 3 year olds) than older children (majority by age 7). Scholars suggest that as children develop, they are more concerned about the consequences of misdeeds, thus they are more likely to conceal them. Thus, fearful of punishment for disobeying, older children believe that they can lie to avoid consequences.

Prosocial and Antisocial Lies

Children are more likely to engage in antisocial lies for self-gain as they age. In one study, 87 percent of 5 year olds lied about the location of a prize to keep it to themselves, whereas only 29 percent of 3 year olds did. Moreover, when trained to mislead an investigator about the location of the prize, most children were able to do so by age 4. In addition, as children age, their spontaneous antisocial lies become harder to detect: By age 8, it becomes difficult for adults to discern which children lied and which children were truthful. Thus, older children lie more frequently and are better liars than younger children.

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