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Numerous legal issues confront families headed by homosexual parents. These concerns are not encountered by heterosexual parents, in large part because of legal protections that allow heterosexual couples more ease in the process of becoming and being parents. While a small number of state and local governments have instituted nondiscrimination legislation, currently no overarching federal protections or civil rights exist for homosexuals in the United States. Individual states have different legislation, and within states and jurisdictions individual judicial decisions are often contradictory, thus leaving the lesbian or gay couple to navigate the legal system for answers to questions regarding family life.

The legal obstacles facing families headed by lesbians or gays primarily stem from the fact that their relationships are not legally recognized. The state of legal matrimony grants heterosexual couples many legal benefits. Both parents of children in a heterosexual union automatically have legal guardianship of their children. If assisted reproduction is utilized and sperm or egg donation is employed, the husband or wife in the marriage does not have to adopt the child even if they have no biological tie to the child. Adoption is available for heterosexual parents in every state. Marriage affords the heterosexual partnership an ease with which to navigate the legal system in issues pertaining to making medical decisions for a partner, the inheritance of property of a deceased partner, employment and health insurance benefits for a partner and children, or, in the event of a separation and/or divorce, laws provide guidance with respect to division of property, child support, and child custody. Numerous federal benefits, such as Social Security survivor benefits or income and estate tax benefits, provided for the heterosexual couple are denied the homosexual couple. Civil union and domestic partnership legislation provides some of these rights and protections to the homosexual couple, but the vast majority of states lack this legislation. In 2003, 44 states continue to deprive gay and lesbian couples of these rights and ultimately sentence the children of these unions to what could be called “legal single parenthood”—only one parent has the legal right to spend time with the child and make decisions about the child's well-being.

How is the Family Formed?

Previous Heterosexual Relationship

In large part, the legal obstacles parents face stem from the manner in which the family is formed. For example, the primary concerns for lesbian or gay parents who became parents as the result of a previous heterosexual relationship are custody and visitation. When parents disagree, custody decisions are typically decided on the basis of the evidence a judge decides to consider and the judge's right to determine what is “in the best interest of the child.” Lesbian and gay parents have been consistently denied custody and visitation on the basis of their sexual orientation, although, increasingly, states require dueling parents to demonstrate an “adverse effect”—parents must show how the actual behavior of a parent has affected the child. Expert witnesses tend to play key roles in these custody cases.

Foster Care and Adoption

Like all other issues facing lesbian and gay families, the legal right of gay and lesbian parents to foster and adopt children varies from state to state. Seeking parenthood as an individual or as a couple also affects their legal rights (typically single parents are afforded more rights). Interestingly, some states explicitly prohibit gay or lesbian parents from adopting children but permit them to foster children.

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