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Dating in Adolescence
Although the term dating conjures up images of young men and women pairing off and engaging in social activities together, arriving at an acceptable empirical definition is more difficult, due largely to sociohistorical changes. Prior to the 1970s, dating referred to heterosocial interactions that were somewhat formal in function and structure. That is, dating served the primary purpose of selecting an individual of the opposite sex with whom a long-term, romantic relationship might develop, culminating in mate selection (marriage and children). Moreover, relatively strict scripts for dating provided a well-defined, albeit gender-differentiated structure (e.g., boy asks girl to go with him to an event, with a prearranged time or function).
Today, dating refers to multifunctional and more loosely structured social activities between two individuals of the same or opposite sex who are potential partners, but may or may not be interested in developing a long-term relationship. In addition, recognition of dating among sexual minority youth suggests that an emphasis on heterosociality is outmoded. The current idioms reflect a less formal structure. Adolescents refer to their activities as “hanging out with,” “going out with,” or “talking with,” rather than “dating.”
Although adolescents are capable of discriminating between friendships and romantic relationships, their notions of what constitutes “dating” changes across the course of adolescence. Thus, adolescents may be uncertain as to whether dating means romantic interests, spending time together, or formal dating.
Contemporary Dating Patterns
Experience with dating increases across adolescence and young adulthood, with the first dating experience typically occurring sometime between 13 and 15 years of age. Estimates range from slightly less than half to two thirds of adolescents having had some dating experience by age 16, with most early dating occurring in group contexts (Feiring, 1996) and more exclusive dating increasing with age. Although pubertal maturation might be expected to predict onset of dating and dating frequency, evidence suggests the contrary, with adolescents of the same age dating despite variability in pubertal timing and status. One exception is Chinese adolescents, among whom researchers have found that early pubertal maturation was linked to an early onset of dating, but only among boys (Lam, Shi, Ho, Stewart, & Fan, 2002).
Dating often progresses through several different stages, beginning with socializing in mixed-sex groups (i.e., “hanging out”), followed by pairing off within group settings, to casual dyadic socializing, and involvement in steady, committed relationships. Adolescents vary considerably, however, in the degree to which they are involved in dating in terms of number of dating partners, amount of experience or dating history, and the degree of intimacy in their relationships with dating partners. Dating in adolescence, then, is somewhat transitory in nature, with even serious relationships lasting an average of about 4 months (Feiring, 1996).
Adolescents are exposed to information about dating from a number of sources. Friends are cited as providing the most information as well as being the most comfortable source, whereas parents and sex educators are considered the most accurate sources. Parents, however, provide less information if there is an older sister (Wood, Senn, Desmarais, Park, & Verberg, 2002).
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- Adolescent Development
- Abstinence in Adolescence
- Adolescence and Thriving
- Adolescence, Current Trends and Research About
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- Athletic Participation and Girls' Development
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- Decision Making Among Adolescents
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