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As Ellen Bercheid points out in her foreword to this volume, relationship science is a complex and ever expanding field. Much credit goes to editors Clyde Hendrick and Susan S. Hendrick for their scholarly dedication to the advancement of this multidisciplinary arena. This sourcebook demonstrates, yet again, their expertise and leadership as they succeed in combining many great contributions to the field by some of the most respected specialists around. Read this book for a panoramic view of close relationship research with highlights from current literature, original research, practical applications, and projections for future research.

Close Relationships in Old Age

Close relationships in old age
RosemaryBlieszner

As is true for people throughout life, those in old age rely on close relationships for their psychological well-being and even their physical health (Adams & Blieszner, 1995). Interactions with significant others buffer the effects of stressful events and situations, offer emotional sustenance and affirmation of one's identity, yield needed assistance, help structure time in meaningful ways, and provide continuity in important roles. At the same time, close relationships prompt developmental change in the participants, and the relationships themselves change over time. Close relationships entail not only benefits but also challenges and problems for those involved.

AUTHOR'S NOTE: I thank Katherine R. Allen, Lisa M. Artale, and Karen A. Roberto for their assistance.

This chapter includes discussions of three key topics pertaining to late-life close relationships. One focus is on the variety and diversity of these relationships in old age. How do such ties compare to those during the earlier years of life? How do personal characteristics and types of relationships affect the nature of social interaction during the later years? A second topic addresses the interactive dynamics of close relationships. What are the most important functions of these associations, and how do participants enact them? In what ways do close relationships contribute both to well-being and to distress in old age? The third topic details implications of current literature for theory development, future research agendas, and practice. What conceptual frameworks exist to aid in filling gaps in knowledge about old age relationships? How can current information about close relationships be used to improve the quality of life for elder citizens? These topics illustrate the depth and breadth of information available about significant others during the later years while at the same time pointing toward applications and additional research agendas.

Variety and Diversity of Close Relationships in Old Age

Comparison of Close Relationships across the Life Span

Myths about old people and aging processes abound. Many people seem to believe that the final part of life is lived in alien territory, fraught with intractable problems and disabilities. In fact, current cohorts of elders are healthier than ever, possessing many personal and social resources that allow them to engage in a full range of close relationships and associated activities. At the same time, age-related changes that affect health or lifestyle are likely to have an impact on close relationships as well. In what ways are old adults’ close relationships like those of everyone else? In what ways are they different?

Most old people, even those who never married or never had children, are members of families and have frequent contact with at least some of their relatives. Most have and interact regularly with friends as well (Allen, 1989; Antonucci & Akiyama, 1995; Litwin, 1997; Phillipson, 1997). Satisfactory relations with kin depend on feelings of attachment and interdependence throughout life (Koski & Shaver, 1997; Silverstein & Bengtson, 1997). Help and gifts are passed both up and down the generational lines (Cheal, 1983; Gallagher, 1994; Lee & Aytac, 1998). Old people value the same facets of romantic relationships as do young people, namely emotional security, respect, communication, help and play behaviors, sexual intimacy, and love (Reedy, Birren, & Schaie, 1981). Likewise, similar characteristics of friends are appealing across ages including shared values and interests, trustworthiness, displays of affection, and expressions of support (Blieszner & Adams, 1992).

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