When one arrives at this point in Pattern Changing, it is interesting to look again at the “Pattern Changing Outcome Goals for Participants” (see Appendix) from Session I. If you have kept a journal during the program, it too will help you recognize your progress. “Your Bill of Rights” is becoming a daily guideline in defining values and making reasoned decisions. You understand the abuse problem and family dynamics that are involved and are particularly aware of the fact that abuse is about control and is 100% the abuser's problem. You no longer think you are responsible for it in any way, and you know that no one deserves to be abused. You are well aware that [Page 193]when ...
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